{By Request}: Loving Lavender: A Vineyard Wedding

{Plum, Lavender & Gray}

When shades of purple meet gray I have to admit, I kind of get sucked into a visual dream state. I mean, how perfect are these colors together? Perhaps it's just because this palette is effortlessly romantic. Or maybe it's because this palette exudes all kinds of elegance without feeling pretentious? I love how these colors compliment one another. Today's request comes from Melissa from California! Melissa wrote to me and explained that she was hoping to use shades of gray and purple, but was not sure if it was going to look okay! So here is my attempt to show her that yes, this palette will look more than okay! It will look gorgeous!

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{top row}: calligraphy by Jennifer, bridal clutch, boutonniere, sweet newlyweds, {middle row}: pretty clutch, purple flower, earrings, lavender heart, lace ribbon, {bottom row}: bridal party, toppers by Wedding Girl, newlyweds, centerpiece.

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Calligraphy by Jennifer!

Some of the ideas I'm loving in this board include the pretty little bridal clutch by BagatellesandCo! I've long been a huge fan of this Etsy shop! Plus, check out the gorgeous Calligraphy by Jennifer! Handwritten calligraphy really is such an easy and charming way to add elegance to your wedding. Oh, and who isn't loving those cute little cupcake toppers by etsy shop, WeddingGirl? Such a cute way to ask your bridal party to be a part of your special day!

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Chrissy Arpie Ott

Chrissy Arpie Ott is the founder of The Perfect Palette. Since its launch in 2008, The Perfect Palette has been the go-to color resource for couples who dream of a unique, creative and colorful wedding day.

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21 Comments " {By Request}: Loving Lavender: A Vineyard Wedding "

Michaela March 01, 2011

Love this palette. I'm bias- purple is my favorite (: It will definitely be my wedding color!

ASHLEY March 01, 2011

love Jennifer too! And lavender!

Carolina March 01, 2011

This palette is so perfect- love the variety of shades of purple!

Ashley N. March 01, 2011

Love this palette! So pretty in every way!

Dori March 01, 2011

L-O-V-E!! Love!

The Perfect Palette March 01, 2011

This is one of my favorite wedding palettes! Love that calligraphy too!! So pretty!

Unknown March 01, 2011

Very soft and romantic. I love that centerpiece in the last photo.


Love the various shades of purple. Love the shape and color of the last centerpiece

Bethany Lane March 01, 2011

gorgeous, gorgeous, gorgeous!!

TheMrsT March 01, 2011

I love this! The color combo is beautiful!!!!

Lauren H. March 01, 2011

Very similar to my color palette. Love this!

Jessica March 01, 2011

Lavender & gray is my absolute FAVORITE color combo! Gorgeous.

The Perfect Palette March 02, 2011

Loving this!

Lissa (The Wedding Bistro at Bellenza) March 02, 2011

Sooo elegant! We'll be sharing this fabulous post on our Bellenza FB page!!/pages/Bellenza/62711768890

Lissa (The Wedding Bistro at Bellenza) March 02, 2011

Just shared your link to this post on our FB page, but it didn't provide a thumbnail to "show it off." Made a little note to be sure people click on the link to see the full board. :-)

Life,Styled March 03, 2011

Such a gorgeous palette! And so perfect for a vineyard wedding ;-))) Love that clutch!!

Tessa Moore March 04, 2011

so in love with that calligraphy, so seriously pretty.

Kristin June 05, 2011

Can anyone tell me what kind of flowers are in the last picture of the centerpiece? it's absolutely what i was looking for!

CK Paper Designs November 18, 2011

Love, love, love your website. It is an inspiration to all my brides! Thank you!

Victoria February 21, 2012

I absolutely adore this the gray and the hues on purple together. I would of never thought of it myself- The invitations are beautiful- and the dress on the top right corner- is to die for, at least the little bit I see of it. Thanks for the great posts! =)


My Fiance and I just deccided to use Purple & Grey as our wedding colours.
Lots of weird looks from family at first. This just makes our decision easier to back up.
Thank you for the ideas :)

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